Asian penpals and Filipina ladies - Questions about free addresses.

The number one question I get about our website is whether our website is free.  I receive email almost everyday from guys that really do not believe our online dating site is free.  Yes, we are all free!  When we started this website last year we were adding only a few penpals a month. The work load was about 8 to 10 hours per week to keep the site running.  We are now adding at least 50 Asian Filipina ladies every month, and I am spending 35 hours per week updating the site.  Guess what, WE ARE STILL A FREE SITE :)

Your real expenses will come in when you start calling your Asian lady or make plans to go see her.  So if you are light in the wallet, and do not really have any hope of saving money for a trip, then you probably do not want to waste your time (and hers) forming a relationship.  Guess you are kind of stuck with the ladies in your neighborhood :(

If you look hard enough you will find other free sites for Filipina penpals. I know which sites are free because I have researched them.  The common theme is most of them only add about 5 Asian ladies a month, or they add 50 or 60 ladies once a year.  These Filipina pen pals literally receive hundreds and hundreds of letters.  We have a lot more ladies so hopefully the odds are a little better when you use this site.  Some guys resort to putting $10 and $20 in the envelops hoping to buy a response.  STUPID!  I am sorry but the logic behind this escapes me.  Of course most ladies in the Philippines are poor and they will gladly take your money to feed their family, but is that what you really want to do?  How about use your heart and mind and make real friends and form healthy relationships :)

We all have to make hard decisions about how to spend our hard earned cash, but sending it to ladies you meet on the internet is really a bad idea.  Of course a few dollars for postage is ok, but just sending money to send it is plain foolish.  Also, giving a lady a little gift like flowers is fine, but sending her $500 "because her mommy needs an operation" is another bad idea.