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Do you know the best way to stop displaying Filipinas as something you can buy at the supermarket? Do you know the
best way to get rid of guys that are looking to find a Filipina trophy wife? These are important questions but the solution
is really very simple. Let me explain how simple it can be accomplished.
Take away the online advantage
Guys that are looking for a trophy wife or a woman to dominate usually have several things in common. First, they do
not expect, and often refuse, to divulge anything about themselves to a third party (website). They want a list of women
to contact so they can go to work. They may pay for access to a list, or the members, but that is all they will do. They
want to see the ladies heights, weights, measurements, and they want to pick and choose who to contact based on
these and several other factors. They are less concerned with education and job status, and in fact many of these guys
say the dumber the better. This is very sad, but some guys actually prefer less brain power because it means less of a
chance she becomes disillusioned with him later.
At MP things are different. We are an actual "dating site" and "social networking site" which has certain minimal
requirements to become a member. First, everyone is treated equally. Members (male and female) will provide a decent
profile and picture of themselves or they will not get approved. This requirement alone serves two purposes. First, guys
with attitudes that think they are privileged find out they wasted their time signing up. This leads to a 50% rejection rate
because half the guys trying to sign up are lazy, or have the "trophy wife" mentality which MP rejects.
Second, this helps eliminate Filipina lady scammers because most of them have a similar pattern of using model pictures
and crappy profiles. I would estimate about 10% of Filipinas trying to sign up on dating sites are looking for cash and
not a partner. 95% of them are stopped at the MP registration process, or they are discovered in short order by
Filipinas that use MP that can pick them out. The ones dumb enough to use their own pictures are taking a huge chance
of being labeled a scammer and having their picture exposed to the world.
Free Social networking sites are the best way to go
MP is a community of people. Members exchange ideas on the boards and interact in ways that gives other members a
chance to know them. They can make informed decisions about whether they want to continue communicating with
members based on how they interact with others. Chat rooms also offer a chance for interaction, but you have to be
very careful using chat rooms. Chats move very quickly, sometimes too quickly, and people get sucked into relationships
for the wrong reasons. Unless you save every conversation, and go back and look for inconsistencies, you may miss
important signs of danger.
Whenever you find a free community one thing you can count on is that the people behind the scenes must care. When
you take away the profit motive of memberships, there are less reasons to worry about what kind of games are being
played to suck you in. MP realizes that long distance dating is not for everyone, and we do not encourage people to
stay if they decide this is not for them. Actually, there is a very small percentage of people that are wired for these types
of relationships. It takes a lot of patients and dedication.